I celebrate YOU & your ♥LOVE-ing

DAILY LOVE TIP – Friday 17 June 2011

“You don’t have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great” ~ Zig Ziglar

Do you want to be great at LOVE-ing?

Have a go at the 30 DAY BEING-♥LOVE CAMPAIGN….


Sending the biggest heart shape I could find to CELEBRATE wonderful YOU for the TEENY-EST or the most HUGE dollops of  LOVE-ing you have been putting into the world over the first two weeks of June – the first half of our 30 DAYS of BEING-♥LOVE. Wow!!

I can hear some of you saying well ‘I haven’t done it every day’; ‘I wanted to do more, but….’; ‘I’ve failed!’; I haven’t done it good enough…’; ‘It wasn’t all that important’ or any of the other stories that you are telling yourself about your efforts. I invite you to check which ‘lens’/filter you are looking through as you look at yourself and your actions.

Are you a Love-Finder or a Fault-Finder?

Are you being a ♥LOVE-FINDER or a FAULT-FINDER? Do you look and see the glass half empty or half full?

 “Change the way you look at things and the things you look at change”. ~Wayne Dyer.

“The real act of discovery consists not in finding new lands,
but in seeing with new eyes” ~ Marcel Proust.

Every action, every micro-MOVE-ment of expanding your ♥LOVE-ing matters!

How about sharing with us right NOW 3 things you celebrate and appreciate about yourself for choosing this project or any project you are working on right now however big or small!

Here’s mine:

1. A ripple from my 30 DAYS BEING- ♥LOVE has been all my sisters and brothers connecting with each other even though we are in different place around the world – YAY!!…And this is especially and serendipitously wonderful as my focus I chose was my sisters.

2. My heart has been so much more full & open to all I interact with. It’s like my mind is more attuned to focusing on ♥LOVE-ing.

3. My creative mind is leaping and cavorting all over the place with new ideas for ways to serve and support people to open and fill their hearts and lives with ♥LOVE.

I haven’t had much response from people in relation to the point I put in a previous post (Tuesday 7th June)  – SOME TIPS/TOOLS FOR YOU for the 30 DAY BEING-♥LOVE CAMPAIGN and other New Projects around how you celebrate and reward yourself so I’ve decided that it would be good to repeat it as it’s almost as if most people have selective hearing when it comes to hearing about themselves doing a good job as well as having rituals for celebrating themselves.

The point was:

Make sure to include daily celebrating and rewarding of yourself for your successes and your efforts. In most areas of life when you do a job people expect to get paid/rewarded for it. In personal growth areas people tend to focus on what is wrong with them rather than celebrating and valuing when they achieve their goals.

Regularly give yourself  –
pats on the back
High 5’s
good job
gold stars
Well done!
How Awesome
You are Amaaaaaaazing!
doing little celebrating dances
special treats
Big YESessssssssss!!….the kid parts of us love this!

Now another TIP is:- just reading about this isn’t going to change your life. Unfortunately, NO it won’t.

The ACTIONS I take create the RESULTS I get

You actually have to DO something different – ACT in a different way.

MY REQUEST of you is to declare in the comments below a minimum of one way you are going to celebrate and reward yourself over the next month. We need to do it regularly for at least this period of time for it to become a HABIT!

New habit


One thing I am adopting is Stephanie’s idea and I am giving myself a happy face, love-heart or star sticker when I achieve a task I have set myself.

YES!! – this has got me closer to my goal! I’ve just given myself a big smiley face on the back of my hand – it’s FUN! They are already on my keyboard and computer and in my diary as well…….Joe ‘Gold Star’ strikes again :O)

….Joe ‘Gold Star’ strikes again 😊

One way I celebrate myself is regularly saying OUT LOUD A BIG YES in celebration of a job I’ve completed or a goal I’ve achieved…….or just for BEING me too! I can instantly feel my body responding chemically…flooding my body with all those positive chemicals we need….which reduces our stress physiologically too by the way….


…….I bend my arm bringing  my clenched fist up and towards my body saying……….

A BIG YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS……….. out  loud really hissing  the sssssssssss…… and letting them linger. Doing it with both arms is even stronger!…….. I’m wondering if this gesture is called something – like the ‘High 5’ and the ‘Thumbs up’ are?………..Anyone know?

Shelton and I  most days will High 5 each other. Sometimes many times throughout the day. It also feels good to connect with another when you are celebrating.

Do you remember the reward charts that you used to have in primary school?

– if you did something good, you’d get a gold star or smiley face stamp next to your name or on a chart?

Did that motivate you, reward you, stimulate you, encourage you or trigger and prompt you to NOT do whatever it  was that was asked of you? Interesting to reflect on…What are you uncovering about  you?

Question for you:  What are different words and ways you use to celebrate and value yours and others’ success and achievements?

Question for you: What are your memories about how you were rewarded and celebrated when you were growing up?


I celebrate wonderful ♥YOU and every step you take,
Have the best day ever!….. admiringly & gratefully Susie ♥♥

 and others do too….

About susiesheartpathblog

My aim with Susies♥HeartpathBlog is to connect and relate to you from my heart, mind and soul while sharing information and resources about conscious relationships, communication and ♡LOVE and FULL exuberant ALIVENESS…. My intention is to provide a space where you can engage with me and with the community of those who are ‘walking’ the ♥HEART PATH of conscious relationships….. people who daily make choices and actions about becoming and being more ♡LOVE-ing…….people who care that their partners and families and friends and the wider community feel ♡LOVE-d and lovable… people who are curious about and respect and validate the reality of ‘the other’ and who choose to create and live in a Zero Negativity Zone [ZNZ zone].... I am committed to teaching and sharing practical user-friendly communication ★TOOLS and Skills and processes that lead to growth and deep healing, connection, ♡LOVE and intimacy. I am a keen net-worker and committed to connecting people to the abundance of resources that are available. I believe much of what we need is out there, yet people don’t often know the resources are there or if they do where to find them. Putting people in touch with opportunities and possibilities is a high priority for me….
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4 Responses to I celebrate YOU & your ♥LOVE-ing

  1. Gaelia says:

    Hi Susie,
    Must admit haven’t been doing too much reading in the last week as have been a little distracted by the arrival of my Donna Eden Energy Medicine kit. Have been reading/watching/listening to Donna for at least 15 minutes a day plus practicing some of the exercises. Does that count as being kind to myself?
    You know I think this woman might be onto something. Not sure if I completely understand the whole energy pathways stuff, but I can appreciate how just stopping & focusing on yourself & your breathing plus the sensation of Physical touch would have a real benefit. Tried to get the kids to do the Wayne Cook posture with me as she says that is good for learning & stuttering. The kids thought I’d gone bonkers – but we had a good laugh over it.
    My 3 celebration points are:
    1) I’m taking the time to do something nurturing for me
    2) Overall I am feeling more relaxed & have found myself less reactive to my husband & my children.
    3) From time to time I have experienced this cruising sensation that I believe may in fact be “going with the flow” LOL.
    Many thanks again Susie, you are a treasure.


    • Many thanks for responding Gaelia♥
      Great things to celebrate – sounds like some quantum leaps there! A cruising sensation – how amaaaaazing for you plus nurturing you, and being less reactive! Yay!! – I celebrate YOU.
      You ask – Does Donna’s work count as being kind to myself? My take on this is while Donna’s energy work is oh so excellent and nurturing and healing and you know I think it is everyday work for everyone – the question I would offer to you is this taking time out for you to stop for 15 minutes to just be and read a novel twice per day? Or is this in the category of working on yourself to improve yourself? Inquisitively, with love Susie♥


  2. Chris says:

    Hi Susie,
    I chose LOVE-ing my old Dad (86yo) who has Alzheimer’s. His long term memory is great but we are slowly losing him to the here and now. Today he learnt that yet another of his old friends had passed away. He has no friends left. Instead of being sad, we both stood up and danced around with our arms up high like a V sign (for victory) and we said, “I am still alive”, ” I am healthy”, “I will live a long life”. He loved it! and it was a joy to see his face so happy. I felt great that I came up with that idea to help him. So all in all, a great day.

    thanks for your great blog. Love it. Chris


    • Chris♥
      How sweet – a beautiful reminder of how something so small can mean the world to someone! You’ve touched my heart and what a wonderful deposit into my Emotional Bank Account.
      I love how other people’s LOVE-ing actions can fill us as witnesses of it and the consequence is we have more LOVE to give. The beautiful contagion and ripple effect!
      In fact most times – let me correct that – I say every time someone comments even when they are struggling I am touched by people’s realness and their willingness to be caring, which creates a softening in me.
      “….dancing around with our arms up high like a V sign (for victory)” is another way to celebrate I will add to my list. Please take a photo of your Dad or you and your Dad doing that and send it to us!
      Your comment comes as an especially serendipitous time as it was American Father’s Day here yesterday. Let us honour and LOVE ALL Dads! Appreciatively, love Susie ♥


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