So much ♥fun – dressing up for the wedding

LOVE TIP  – Thursday February 9, 2012

Greetings to you most special LOVELIES,

So much Learning and Discovering and Adventures!!!…..There’s so much that I want to share with you all….so many new experiences….and as well there is sooooooooooo much to do and see that finding the time to write is a such a S-T-R-E-T-C-H.

I write both because I want to connect and share this experience with you AND as well I write for me to capture as much of it as I can!! I get to the end of the day and list in my diary what we have done and there is so much that I can hardly remember it all. What incredibly rich and full days of NEW experiences!

Since we have arrived our focus has mainly been on S-H-O-P-P-I-N-G and then again even more S-H-O-P-P-I-N-G for all the many parts to ♡Zoe and ♡Gaurav’s amazing wedding next Thursday. And it hasn’t just been about shopping. It has been learning about all the amazing and fascinating rituals and ceremonies to the Indian wedding….as well as such a cultural experience interacting with the Indian people in the shops.

And as it is ‘THE MARRIAGE SEASON’ here in India there are lots of others out and about either shopping for weddings or actually being married in the many ‘Marriage Palaces’ that are everywhere and on everyday of the week.

So after our warm Greetings and with our feet having just touched the ground we were whisked away from the airport to begin our S-H-O-P-P-I-N-G. We were lucky to have ♡Gaurav’s elder sister ♡Rachna to escort and guide us in the wonderful adventure of  buying material for my wedding outfits as mother of the bride.

OK, so let me take you S-H-O-P-P-I-N-G with us. Be prepared for a colourful cultural experience…..Entering the shop one usually takes off their shoes and leaves them at the door…..Enter into amazing rooms with walls of floor to ceiling colour of such richness and variety…….of all type of amazing fabrics.

Shoes are removed as the floor is covered in mattresses which the guys sit on – and interestingly those who display and sell the material were always guys…. Generally you as the customer sit on the floor on the mattresses in front of them while they select packets of material to show you in the selection of colours and designs that you choose. And incidentally it seems whole families go shopping together and often there were groups of people sitting choosing together….and they keep throwing the fabrics on top of the last one shown so there can be quite a pile in front of you and all around you.

This particular shop was a bit different in that they sat on the mattresses and we sat on chairs at the edge…..I was looking for material to be made into a SALWAR KAMEEZ which is a traditional dress worn by both women and men. The salwar are loose pyjama-like trousers and the legs are wide at the top and narrow at the ankle. The kameez is a long shirt or tunic. The side seams are left open below the waist-line which gives the wearer greater freedom of movement. A long scarf or shawl called a dupatta is also included which can be draped in many amazing different styles around the shoulders, neck or head.

There are so many variations in the type of fabric, colour and the level of embroidery and decoration……making the salwar kameez formal, casual, dressy, or plain everyday wear…….The design is printed and/or embroidered on the material. What a delightful experience I had with many different styles and colours being draped around me by the expert hands of these young guys…. Then you choose which ones you like on you.










After you choose your fabric it is then taken to a tailor or some of the shops have their own tailors.

These two designs I am having made up.

♡Shelton had such a great time ‘hanging out’ with us as we chose our garments… And he was especially delighted he is getting to dress up as well. His garment is called a KURTA which is a loose shirt falling either just above or somewhere below the knees of the wearer, and is worn by both men and women. They are traditionally worn with loose-fitting pyjama-type pants or they can be worn over any pants…..Add a  highly decorative scarf and a turban for a touch of elegance and ‘royalty’ to the outfit. He, and all the guys, will look very spectacular! 






Oh what Fun!….and we had so much laughter and playfulness dressing up and choosing.

♡Zoe will be wearing a bridal LENGHA which is highly embroidered with rich brocade… feels so utterly glamorous and gorgeous……..but then you’ll have to wait to THE  DAY’ to see pictures of her outfit.

Lengha’s comprise a long usually highly embroidered/brocaded skirt with a separate blouse and a shawl which is richly embellished with sparkling glittery sequins and beads and the like.

Her sister ♡Freea is also wearing a lengha – and here she is trying one on….. which gives you an idea of what I am talking about.

For ♡Zoe there is an amazing array of jewellery that is also part of the full outfit…..which I’ll share more about later.

We are so excited about how everyone is going to look…and really soaking in the whole experience of going shopping for everyone’s ‘finery’. It is special that the S-H-O-P-P-I-N-G  itself has turned into a not-to-be-missed wonderful event! How entirely fantastic that we are getting so much pleasure out of the preparations.

By the way I can’t forget to mention SARIS which are the other garment some of the other ladies in our group will be wearing…..What a spectacular dress-up event we are looking forward to!….And as we are having so much fun and delight we can hardly contain ourselves thinking about how things are going to get a whole lot better on the wedding day.

Much LOVE and BLESSINGS and with excited anticipation, SUSIE

“Life is ten percent what happens to you and ninety percent how you respond to it.” ~Lou Holtz

The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched…. They must be felt with the heart… ~ Heklen Keller

About susiesheartpathblog

My aim with Susies♥HeartpathBlog is to connect and relate to you from my heart, mind and soul while sharing information and resources about conscious relationships, communication and ♡LOVE and FULL exuberant ALIVENESS…. My intention is to provide a space where you can engage with me and with the community of those who are ‘walking’ the ♥HEART PATH of conscious relationships….. people who daily make choices and actions about becoming and being more ♡LOVE-ing…….people who care that their partners and families and friends and the wider community feel ♡LOVE-d and lovable… people who are curious about and respect and validate the reality of ‘the other’ and who choose to create and live in a Zero Negativity Zone [ZNZ zone].... I am committed to teaching and sharing practical user-friendly communication ★TOOLS and Skills and processes that lead to growth and deep healing, connection, ♡LOVE and intimacy. I am a keen net-worker and committed to connecting people to the abundance of resources that are available. I believe much of what we need is out there, yet people don’t often know the resources are there or if they do where to find them. Putting people in touch with opportunities and possibilities is a high priority for me….
This entry was posted in ♥LOVE NOTE, ♥Positive & Inspirational Quotes, INDIA and tagged , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink.

2 Responses to So much ♥fun – dressing up for the wedding

  1. Hilary says:

    Sitting in the chilly lobby,sipping hot milky chai, feeling so spectacularly amazed at being a part of the beautiful Zoe & Gauravs wedding celebrations. Being able to share with my daughters their unfolding and embracing into Indian culture as I watch swirls of jewelled fabric float to encircle a kalediscope of images, sounds and laughter. Tears well in my eyes as I feel so full of joy and humbleness in having the opportunity of fully living, feeling so incredibly rich. How to continue to embrace it all, enjoy all of the moments, to accept the gifts of each gem of contact where language often fails but heart and intent still meet. Sitting with the Brahmam priest as he so obligingly answers my questions thru translation, but feeling even more enthraled with his practiced movements of mudras and the sparkle in his eyes. Falling in love with India again is falling in love with myself again all of my pieces transparent and visible. To accept or not or as Susie so wisely said, meeting & accepting or confront & challenge, after all it’s my story isn’t it? Namaste, to another exciting day

    Liked by 1 person

  2. Vera says:

    It makes me happy and teary at the same time reading your blogs. What wonderful colourful photos, materials and people….
    much love from Vera

    Liked by 1 person

Share your thoughts here - be great to hear what you think♡

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s