Spend just 30 days to create more love in the lives of people you care about!
My comment of “Here’s to visions of ‘emotional stampedes’ of love and healing” from the last blog didn’t happen and people have been slow and ‘sluggish’ to respond and sign up for the 30 DAY BEING-LOVE DARE/CHALLENGE/DREAM apart from a few amazing HERO-INES.
I was soooooooo very disappointed and ready to give up and give in and resign myself to spending my days watching Oprah re-runs and Little House on the Prairie on TV and eating bonbons (a joke Shelton and I have!!) – teehee – and my Inner Critic voices were telling me that what I am writing about doesn’t really matter to anyone much and it’s all too hard and why bother?….My efforts to convince myself to be Glad No Matter What!!…..didn’t work as most parts of me weren’t listening….But I have gallantly lifted myself up from the muddy quagmire of despair…and the couch :O) – supported now with some wonderful help from some great Energizer Buddies ….and started over…..and have been refining what to do to next…
So the good news is I haven’t given up! One change is the STARTING DATE has been moved forward to June 1st so that the 30 DAY BEING-LOVE CAMPAIGN is now running from June 1st – 30th…..This is in response to a few comments from people when I posted the last blog that it would work better for them to start at the beginning of the month as it would allow them to more easily know what day they are at and as well it would give them a bit more time to prepare themselves…So Yay!! – You can join us!!
Another change is a NEW NAME – the 30 DAY BEING-LOVE CAMPAIGN. It is resonating better with me as a name – not sure why – just does! It’s all such an experiment…learning as I am DOing..!
Questions for you:
a) What is your wish or dream of how the relationships that matter to you are like?
b) What if today was the last day you could be caring to someone that matters to you?
c) Are you ready to be more loving and loved?
YOUR ACTION PLAN or WHAT YOU DO. Going from DREAM-ing to DO-ing
A FEW SIMPLE STEPS:
The 30 DAY BEING-LOVE CAMPAIGN is in relation to a person who is important to you where your relationship is strained, or there’s stress and tension, or there’s conflict or maybe disconnection or perhaps you just don’t spend the time to nurture the relationship and yet you long to be closer to them…
DURATION TIME: 30 days – such a short time to create more love in your life!
START DATE: Wednesday 1st June 2011
COST: FREE– You simply choose how much time and effort you want to spend – with a reminder
The ACTIONS I take create the RESULTS I get!
WHAT YOU DO:
a) You choose whichever relationship you will focus on for the 30 days
b) Click on leave a comment/leave a reply at end of this post and sign up for the 30 DAY BEING-LOVE CAMPAIGN and tell us what you dream about or wish for of how you want this relationship to be different focusing on what you are choosing to do differently for the next 30 days.
c) Write about it in the present tense – as if it is already happening.
d) We recommend making your actions SMART P – Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant (to what you want to achieve), Time (set yourself a time limit for each day) and put it in the Positive (eg: A minimum of once each day I do something that makes ‘my friend’ feel noticed and that they are important to me instead of describing it by saying I am not neglecting or ignoring my friend)
Reading what I shared in the last post (Sunday 15th May 2011) about what I am choosing to do in relation to my sisters might help and give you some ideas.
INSTRUCTIONS & TO REGISTER: Read about it in full and Register Now at: https://susiesheartpathblog.wordpress.com/2011/05/16/the-30-day-being-love-darechallengedream/
BENEFITS: awesome and unimaginable quantum leaps
WHO SHOULD PARTICIPATE: Everyone invited and All Welcome! – This is for YOU – if you are interested in achieving more happiness and loving in your life and in the lives of people you care about.
SUPPORT: There will be regular TIPS and STORIES and TOOLS and ENERGISER BUDDIES to keep you on track and encouraging you throughout the 30 DAYS. Many exciting updates will be regularly posted to help you with challenges and struggles as well as reminders to celebrate along the way.
PLEASE NOTE: It is energizing to be participating in a project like this with a community of like-minded people working with similar goals even if the community is a virtual one. There will be regular inputs of support at various stages of the 30 days. Taking that into account it is also OK for people to jump in and come on board throughout the month.
I bought a new book today (one of my regular indulgences!) – Love That Works by Wendy Strgar and I was flicking through it savouring tidbits and was riveted by a question she asked: What if today was the last day to talk with someone you love? – You know those bits in books that captivate us and take us straight to the check out counter…well it was one of those moments…
What if today was the last day to talk with someone you love? How impactful! She goes on to say – “I could just kick myself for the time that I wasted on petty, small arguments, impatience over minor incidents, and all the other dozens of ways that we give away our most precious gift – the time we are given to love one another”
I am so happy that you are reading this as I know you are the sort of person that cares about having a positive and caring and loving impact on people and “the time we are given to love one another” and are willing to be intentional about learning how to improve the ways you do that. The daily challenge for us all in our busy and full lives is to not become neglectful and inattentive especially to our loved ones.
And how wonderful we do have options other than regret and kicking ourselves. My vision is that the 30 DAY BEING-LOVE CAMPAIGN will sharpen and refine our skills and resources into us becoming better in our giving LOVE day by day…..which in turn makes us more and more JOY-Full and JOY-filled Human Beans who feel more LOVED…..so we then have much more to give from an overflowing abundant place…
So here are some wise SARK words to support you getting started: – Being WILLING is a microMOVEment– Saying YES is a beginning! …..WILLINGNESS and saying YES are the most crucial things to make dreams happen and for making changes in your life……Saying more YES-ES means more YES ENERGY!! Yay! …
Know that your caring about and loving others makes a difference and matters more than you think…..and we all have enough time to be more loving!…….
Gratefully and expectantly, Susie xx
SAY A BIG YES!! and REGISTER NOW at: https://susiesheartpathblog.wordpress.com/2011/05/16/the-30-day-being-love-darechallengedream/
We are recruiting CAMPAIGN SUPPORTERS for Local Communities and ALL offers to get this project out there and MOVE-ing will be gladly and happily and most gratefully accepted…..
“Unless someone like you cares a whole lot. Nothing is going to get better, it’s not.” Dr Seuss, The Lorax
“Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about the things that matter” Martin Luther King Jnr
To fear love is to fear life, and those who fear life are already three parts dead.
“This is my simple religion.There is no need for temples; no need for complicated philosophy. Our own brain, our own heart is our temple; the philosophy is kindness.”- Dalai Lama.